In many cases, the "love" felt for a father-in-law is rooted in admiration for a finished product. A father-in-law has often spent decades refining his character, career, and emotional intelligence. He may be patient, a great listener, and steady—qualities your husband might still be struggling to develop.
When you look at your father-in-law, you are seeing a man who has weathered the storms of life. When you look at your husband, you are in the middle of the storm with him. It is much easier to love the man who provides wisdom from the sidelines than the man who is currently forgetting to do the dishes or failing to meet your emotional needs in the heat of a transition. 2. The Search for a Father Figure i love my fatherinlaw more than my husband
Feeling a stronger affinity for an in-law doesn't make you a bad person, but it is a "check engine light" for your marriage. It suggests that there are core needs—perhaps for respect, deep conversation, or reliability—that are being met by the wrong person. In many cases, the "love" felt for a